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Tracy
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Posted:06/06/2008 4:07 AM

I wanted to stop in and let you know that I am thinking of you and sending big hugs your way. I don't know what you are feeling and/or going through but suffering a loss of my own I can definitely relate. I know that this is a more than usual painful time for your family as Taylor's (Lumpy girl) birthday is very near. I remember reading last year the story about how she didn't like light and how she would bang on her ears and then wonder why the light was still in her eyes. At that time it wasn't often that I would laugh and cry so hard at the same time but that story of Taylor doing that made it happen. :-) I could just picture her in my head doing that and the vision of it was very funny.
I call Autumn's birthday (June 26) my mourning celebration. It is a day that is so sad because our baby's are not here on earth with us but yet the date itself is so wonderful because it is the day that we were blessed with our baby's. I wish I had some words of comfort, some words to make this time more tolerable but we both know that the only thing that can take our pain away is having our baby's back with us. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and if you need an ear I'm here. If you are planning on letting go balloons please let me know what time and what color, I would be honored to let a balloon go for Tyalor.

Brandy
Posts:114

Posted:06/09/2008 4:08 AM

Hello Tracy,
    Thank you so very much! It means alot to me to know that you are thinking about us, and espicially to know that you remembered the story about Tay. It is really one of the thoughts that makes me happy and keeps me going. I am so glad that it has stuck with someone else.
    I know that I am writing this back to you after the fact, and I am sorry for that. We do not let go balloons for her birthday, balloons have a kind of sad signifigance to me that I would definitely explain at another time. But, thank you so much for offering to participate in doing that with us. It is just a thing about balloons for me personally, but I do love having balloons for Taylor, and if you ever wanted to do so, pink is our color for her, and that would be wonderful.  One of our neighbors takes balloons out to the cemetary for us sometimes, because I can't, and that really means a lot to me. Anyway, sorry for babbling on here.
      For Taylor's birthday, we took our son camping and mushroom hunting.  Both of the other years, I have spent the day making flower arrangements, but we had promised to take him when his aunt came into town. I didn't know that it would fall on this weekend, and at first it made me really sad to be gone, but at the end of the day, it was really nice to spend some good family time with our son that day. I put together all the flowers, and took them out to the cemetary on the 6th instead, and they came out really nice.
       Anyway, think I am talking too much on here, so am going to go for now. Again, thank you so much for your good thoughts for us.
          --Brandy

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